I would rather learn vicariously learn through the mistakes of others, than myself. Charlie Munger
REFLECTIONS (learnings and actions): Do you want growth in an area of your life?
Health, business, relationships?
Last week I mentioned ONE insight to help you do this which was to "hire the best mentors, and do what they tell you to do."
Yet, I left out one crucial step you have go through before you can do this.
Well, what is it?
I will tell you but wanted to tell you about how I was able to (actually) self-publish my first book (it all ties in, so keep reading).
The research, organizing, and writing of course was all done by myself but that was not the hard part.
The hard part was actually finding a way to get it published.
By publishing I mean get actually on Amazon direct publishing, which entailed about 10 more steps.
At this point my book had taken me 2.5 years to get to manuscript form and I was so close I thought.
Now, I prided myself on doing everything by myself and wanted to finish the process.
Yet...
I was so close and wanted to finish the book!
So, I leveraged a secret I had used to get the book to the point, which you already know.
"Hire the best mentors, and do what they tell you."
That is how I was able to find out how to organize my outline and the strategies to get the word count up to 35,000 plus words.
So I went out and looked for a mentor who could help me one, edit, but two, help me with the marketing/publishing aspect to finish the process.
I vetted my options and spoke to a few companies and finally found one.
They outlined all the steps I needed to do (much more than I anticipated) and would give me every resource for me to hit each milestone.
All I had to do is invest.
Yet...
I felt scared.
"What happens if it does not work?"
"What happens if I am not able to do what they tell me?"
"Are they able to do what they said they could?"
and on, and on...
Literally I was talking myself out of making the investment...even though I knew it was EXACTLY what I needed.
Now here is the one lesson you need to understand about growth and acceleration.
Move in and write this down.
Growth and acceleration come from hiring the best mentors, and doing what they tell you, I have told you this.
But in order for that to happen you need to view investments properly?
And how do you do that?
Well, there are actually two ways you can view investments and 99% of the planet views them in properly.
In proper way:
You think in terms of LOSS.
-What could I lose?
-What happens if it does not work?
The brain in all the amazing things it does is wired or optimized for safety, not progress.
But this thinking hinders your growth.
This way of thinking will do two things.
First, even if you make the decision you will sabotage yourself and not do everything you can to make the investment work for you.
Second, the greatest loss though is you talk yourself out of it and say you can do it on your own. (reminder you are looking for acceleration here).
This will lead to you either one, burning out before you achieve what you want to, or two, being so exhausted you are not able to enjoy the fruit of your labors once you get there.
So what is the PROPER way?
View the investment as an asset and opportunity.
Know you are accelerating the learning curve, and bypassing years of frustration.
Said this before, but Charlie Munger the "right hand to Warren Buffet has stated, "I would rather learn vicariously learn through the mistakes of others, than myself."
Simple really (most powerful things are).
Thus, invest knowing it is an opportunity to accelerate your learning and bypass costly, timely mistakes by learning from others who have gone where you want to go.
Will tell you there in only ONE 100% guarantee in life, that is if you never try, you will never grow.
An investment will have to made in order for growth to occur.
Thus, if ACCELERATION is what you want then "hire the best mentors and do what they tell you."
In oder to do this, have a proper view of investments or you will never be able to pull the trigger.
So to wrap it up.
First, have a proper view of investments so you can hire the best mentors and do what they tell you to do.
This has been one of my secrets for a very long time for accelerated growth.
Delay No More,
J